SoHim OOTD(ate): From Bar to Bistro

Jun 11, 2025

Dating in the modern world is more than just a connection, it’s a whole aesthetic. Whether it’s, hitting a bougie bar, grabbing coffee, or finally taking her on that real date, your look should always speak before you do. That’s where the SoHim style code comes in, curated fits for every stage of the dating game.

Let’s break down the OOTDs from this sharp series, styled for each scene in your dating timeline:

Scene 1: The Bougie Bar Fit — Night Out with the Boys

You know the vibe: it’s Friday night, the boys are out, the venue is polished, and your drink of choice says more than your pickup line. You show up wearing a deep red satin shirt that commands attention. Pair it with tailored black trousers, tassel loafers, and a sleek Louis Vuitton belt, refined, but not trying too hard.

Silver accessories and a heavy watch bring the bold masculine energy, while a spritz of cologne sets the tone for the night. Now you're ready to hop in your Tessy. 

Vibe: Luxe confidence with just enough edge.

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Scene 2: The Coffee Date Fit — Keeping It Casual

Lowkey plans don’t mean low-effort style. When you're meeting her for a casual cup of coffee, this look says “effortless charm”. A classic black tee, light-washed relaxed jeans, and timeless Adidas Superstars make for a laid back but intentional fit.

Accessories do the talking: Burberry crossbody bag, Apple Watch, and a colorful beaded bracelet that adds a playful touch. You’re carrying your YSL cologne, of course, and your confidence is just as fresh as your drip coffee.

Vibe: Chill, conversational, but stylish enough to leave an impression.

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Scene 3: The Real Date Fit — Game On

This is the moment you’ve been waiting for, no more casual hangs, you’re making it official. You roll up in a ribbed knit tee, crisp cream cargos, and sleek leather loafers. It’s sophisticated but youthful, elevated but still “you”.

A Versus silver watch, a clean silver chain, and Saint Laurent leather belt ties it all together. And yes, Bleu de Chanel is the fragrance of choice - masculine, fresh, and unforgettable. Your look tells her you’re here with intention.

Vibe: Thoughtful. Polished. Finally serious.

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Wear The Moment With S8

This SoHim OOTD(ate) series isn't just about clothes, it's about telling your story through your S8 style. Each outfit marks a milestone in the dating journey, blending personality, class, and effort. With SoHim, you’re not just showing up, you’re arriving.